The 7 Ways How the Fear of Being Seen Plays Out In Your Life
1. You Never Give Your All
The fear of being seen can hold you back from giving your 100% to the things you care about. You don’t fully show up for your life’s purpose. And you hold back from your relationships and don’t use your personal time to recharge or master new skills. , you’ve decided it’s safer to stand back and accept the second or third-best options because you don’t want to risk potential pain. With the fear of being seen, you try many things. You begin new adventures and projects only to stop yourself later. You get easily excited, but you lack a deep commitment to what you do. Deep down, you believe that the only way to stay safe is not to be seen.
2. You Don’t Belong
Another way a fear of being seen can play out is by believing you don’t belong. You feel that you don’t belong to your family, a friend’s group, or the place you live. Although this is a natural way of feeling for the lightworkers, you don’t need ten other people agreeing with every step you take. Likely you already have everything you need to bring forth your gifts ultimately. If someone joins you on the path, it’s a blessing, but if not, you don’t have to wait.
When you rise to your power, your people rise with you.
3. Soul Fragmentation
The fear of being seen also means that a part of us is still in the darkness. Some aspect of us – originating in other or current life – doesn’t feel ready to step into the light. Some deep integration still needs to take place. When we’re ready to stand boldly in the truth of who we are, we’ve brought our inner parts into the light. Thus there can be some soul fragmentation – a part of your soul’s energy trapped in a different time.
4. You Haven’t Accepted Yourself
The fear of being seen also means we haven’t yet accepted who we are. Maybe we sense who we are and our potential but haven’t claimed it yet. Perhaps you know that you should develop talents and soul gifts further, but you sabotage yourself by wasting your time. And you haven’t acknowledged your life’s purpose yet. Therefore you’re afraid to be seen because you haven’t seen your true self yet.
You revolt against the Divine Will, trying to postpone something inevitable.
Eventually, you’ll have to do what you have to do. We either use the time to develop ourselves and create from the soul, or we use it to be like stubborn teenagers waiting for something to save us and make it easy for us.
5. People Want to Own You
The fear of being seen attracts people who want to “own” you. They want to possess or control something you have – something you haven’t fully acknowledged. They want your resources or your gifts, and sometimes they even demand your gifts through anger or blaming you for their misfortune. These people will call you selfish, but they never do anything for you. Their idea of a relationship is that you’re their parent, and you have to give them everything they want.
Energetically it feels like those people want to “own” your spirit. They demand your gifts and time like a self-entitled child.
Those people want to keep you hidden – like their sweet secret. They never mention you to others or connect you to the people they know you would resonate with. They take what they want whenever they want, and if you stand up for yourself, they call you a bad person.
6. People Explain What You Think and Feel
Another way the fear of being seen manifests is by attracting people who explain what you think and feel and what you mean. They seem to have a patent on understanding you and explaining it to their satisfaction. Unlike the previous group of people, those take ownership of your creations. With their projections on you, they cloud you, so you stay hidden. They don’t actually listen to what you say; they wait for an opportunity to cast another web of projections on your psyche.
Don’t lose yourself in the pain other people’s projections cause; come back to the truth of who you are.
7. People Misuse You
The fear of being seen means you don’t see something about yourself. Thus you can attract people who recognize your gifts, but they know that you’re not aware of them entirely. And those people can misuse you or your light unconsciously or not. When you recognize who you are, you can protect your light. Also, the fear of being seen attracts people who don’t tell you that they see your gifts, they don’t compliment you, and they try to use it to their advantage. They only think about how you can benefit them.
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