You Can’t Help By Becoming Less
The agreement was to remind people of their sovereignty as the cycle changes. And to stop healing them in the old way by taking on others’ pain. It’s like withholding important pieces of the puzzle from other people by carrying their burdens. It no longer works. Thus if you’re an empath taking on others’ pain, it doesn’t help them heal. In fact, it can prolong their understanding of their soul lessons.
Moreover, as an empath taking on others’ pain, you lower your frequency. And it binds you to the same realm where the suffering exists. Thus neither of you accesses the Truth – the realm where the healing exists. As a lightworker and empath, you’re the bridge to higher consciousness. And your connection to the higher consciousness is vital for others to heal. By remaining in your center and keeping your channel of light clear and open, you can help many more people. Instead of giving your light away to one person and ultimately flattering their ego.
There is a universe of differences between being empathic and compassionate. The first is still rooted in the ego even though it’s a step in the right direction. The latter actually heals without lowering your energy. A compassionate heart heals through truly seeing other people and holding a vision of their highest self. Reminding them of who they are.
Flattering the Ego
True healing can’t be done by flattering the ego of others. When we edit ourselves to say the things we believe the other person wants to hear. When we lower our frequency not to threaten the false identity of others. And when we become less of who we’re capable of becoming, perpetually living below our potential. Neither of these brings forth true healing. True healing can’t be corrupted by the ego – be it ours or of other people.
As an empath taking on others’ pain, you unconsciously agree to flatter the ego. In the most hidden way, it elevates you because you’re the one who is super sensitive, separated from others. And it also flatters the ego of others because you don’t acknowledge their own connection to the Source. When we rush in to heal someone spiritually – often without an invitation – we don’t acknowledge that the higher self of the person is guiding them. We don’t recognize that their soul needs to have certain experiences, and its imperfection doesn’t mean that the whole situation isn’t perfect. But we’re in a cycle of self-mastery and sovereignty. As an empath taking on others’ pain, you can do it for the rest of your life and it might not lead to many results.
Learn to Hold the Space
You can help more people when you stop taking on pain of others. The old way of healing was supposed to bridge us to these times. Now it’s time to remember the Atlantean and Lemurian ways of healing and go beyond. Healing aligned with sovereignty. Healing that doesn’t require lowering your energy and feeling off-balance. And healing that doesn’t require an empath taking on others’ pain to elevate it. You don’t need to labor other people’s energies through your body anymore.
Instead, learn to hold space for yourself. Become the witness and the observer through which the Consciousness heals. Hold the space for others and hold a vision of their highest, most vibrant selves. Acknowledge other people’s souls and their unique paths. And become a neutral and steady vessel through which Source consciousness heals.
To heal someone your energy blueprints don’t need to merge as it is in the case of an empath taking on others’ pain. We don’t need to become the source for others. Rather help others heal by reconnecting them to the Source. By reminding them of their own connection. As a bridge, you heal others by guiding them to experience and see the magic that is already within them.
A lightworker and an empath taking on others’ pain can ameliorate the pain temporarily. But then you feel low and the other person has missed their chance to realize their inner strength, thus becoming dependent on you. This perpetuates the cycle of dependency.