You have chosen what you want to understand and in what areas you wish to grow. The fact that you don’t remember this choice doesn’t make it less real.
What else would you be doing here than becoming a better person? There is nothing else that can satisfy us than being pure and peaceful within. We all have the same goal, getting there by different means.
Each of us has the same value, but each of us is also unique. The uniqueness lies in our different gifts, life perspectives, and even in what we had already learned. The soul always navigates us to the best learning options based on how conscious we are.
Therefore every single situation happens for you. Learn how to trust life and how to trust that you’re being guided – because you are.
How to Deal with the Difficult Times in Life?
Learn to deal with challenging times by shifting your perception. A good way to start is changing the belief that life happens TO you. And learn instead to see that life happens FOR you.
Sometimes it may seem that you’re unfortunate when you develop an illness. But what if, in reality, your body sends you signals to stop before something more serious would happen to you? What if you need to relax so you can regain clarity of your mind? What if it’s time for you to stop and look at your life and where you are heading?
When someone you love leaves you or don’t love you back, believe that it happens for you and to you. Why would you want to stay with someone who doesn’t appreciate your inner beauty? What would bring you making someone who doesn’t love you to stay? What if he or she must leave you so the right person can step in? What if your idol would turn in a psychopath later on?
When you get fired, also believe that life happens for you. Now, you’re free to do things that you’ve always wanted. You can pack up your things and go to travel. Or you can start your own business so you can become free.
Every situation happens for us. Of course, we don’t always see what is positive in it and what the lesson is. If we had known it, we wouldn’t need those challenges in the first place. But learn to trust that the life happens for you and you’ll learn and grow much faster!
You can always turn your greatest pain into the greatest power.
This article is based on my latest book: “Become the CEO of Your Mind.”