No.1 Way to let go of controlling future
When we stop trying to rely on ourselves, and we rely on a greater power than us, the universe guides us. When we let go of controlling the future, we become teachable. Whenever we shift from reacting to creating, we put our egos aside our plans.
Letting go of controlling future is essential especially if we don’t want to repeat the old patterns.
When we’re genuinely present, we can be flexible about what is happening. Without controlling the future, we can make decisions that support us, and we don’t need to be strict about what we want to happen.
There is a much higher power than we are. The only thing what is wanted from us is to get out of our way.
By clinging to circumstances, we don’t allow the light to enter our lives.
When we want specific outcomes, we cut ourselves off the whole variety of other things that could have had happened.
Letting go of control requires strengthening belief in God, universe, and soul. Only when we try to make things on our own, we make everything unnecessarily difficult.
But we can change our perception and stop relying on our limited power and instead surrender to the universe. This can sound like a too out-of-reach approach, but it’s precisely what we need to do.
Practically, this can look like reminding yourself that you don’t need to figure things out. I like to tell myself that it’s okay, I can relax, and what is meant to be mine will be mine.
When we don’t get what we want, we automatically think that something is wrong. But it isn’t. We always get exactly what we need (not what we think we need).
Learn to play with the present moment and expand your vision to look at life as a playground where you already have all the tools you need now.