2. Decide to be there for you
Now, you have to make a strong decision to show up for yourself. You can’t choose it partially, with someone, or just sometimes, it has to be ‘Hell Yeah!’
You’ll need a strong will which means you need a strong determination. Are you ready to show up for yourself? It’s okay to start with one life area at first – but you have to mean it. Decide to be there for you no matter what.
3. Do things for yourself
Now, let me be clear, I don’t say you should be a selfish person who devalues others. No way. Showing up for yourself is an act of self-love, self-worth, and respect for others.
Yet, you have to practice showing up for yourself before it becomes natural to you. When you’re about to make a decision, before thinking what someone else wants, ask what YOU want. Don’t compromise what you want. Do EXACTLY what you want.
4. Watch your language
Don’t say things like “it doesn’t matter or it isn’t a big deal”. Step fully into your power and support yourself through the words you speak. Eliminate any negative, loud or internal, self-talk.
The way you talk, the way you walk or even stand determines your vibrations and sends information to your mind. Take full responsibility for the way you show up.